Competition is real. The market is real. The fashion market is real. The dating market is real. The attention market is real. Before you get a chance to tell me anything - you need to get my attention. What gets people’s attention universally? Confidence. It’s seductive. It’s comforting. It’s optimistic. So if you want attention, if you want to stand out, if you want to be heard - express your confidence. Make moves that will make people around you wonder - who is she and why she has confidence to do what she does. Where did she get that confidence from and how can I get it too. And then inspire others to get theirs by telling your story. By lifting others up, by supporting them and giving advice when they ask for it. Get your confidence up and then help others to get theirs. All starts with attention.